{"id":38288,"date":"2026-01-30T09:59:17","date_gmt":"2026-01-30T07:59:17","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/?p=38288"},"modified":"2026-01-30T09:59:17","modified_gmt":"2026-01-30T07:59:17","slug":"copiii-cu-ochii-luminati-de-ecrane-nu-de-soare","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/copiii-cu-ochii-luminati-de-ecrane-nu-de-soare\/","title":{"rendered":"Copiii cu ochii lumina\u021bi de ecrane, nu de soare"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tr\u0103im vremuri \u00een care lumina nu mai vine doar de la soare, nici din candela rug\u0103ciunii, ci din ecrane reci, mereu aprinse. \u00cen aceast\u0103 lumin\u0103 artificial\u0103 cresc tot mai mul\u021bi copii \u2013 cu ochii fixa\u021bi pe telefoane \u0219i tablete, pe alte gadgeturi, dar cu privirea tot mai rar ridicat\u0103 spre cer. Copil\u0103ria, odinioar\u0103 plin\u0103 de alergare, joac\u0103 \u0219i uimire, se mut\u0103 \u00eencet \u00eentr-un spa\u021biu virtual, unde t\u0103cerea inimii este acoperit\u0103 de sunetul notific\u0103rilor. Copilul nu cere ecranul la \u00eenceput. El cere prezen\u021b\u0103. Cere vocea mamei, m\u00e2na tat\u0103lui, timpul petrecut \u00eempreun\u0103. Dar \u00eentr-o lume gr\u0103bit\u0103, \u00een care adul\u021bii sunt obosi\u021bi, ocupa\u021bi sau absen\u021bi, ecranul devine \u00eenlocuitor: bon\u0103, profesor, prieten. F\u0103r\u0103 s\u0103 ne d\u0103m seama, deleg\u0103m educa\u021bia inimii unor imagini care nu iubesc \u0219i unor algoritmi care nu cunosc mila.<\/strong><\/p>\n

P\u0103rin\u021bii sunt chema\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eenlocuiasc\u0103, m\u0103car din c\u00e2nd \u00een c\u00e2nd, ecranul cu cartea de pove\u0219ti. Povestea citit\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103 creeaz\u0103 leg\u0103tur\u0103, lini\u0219te \u0219i \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 copilul s\u0103 asculte, s\u0103-\u0219i imagineze \u0219i s\u0103 simt\u0103. Cartea nu gr\u0103be\u0219te, nu obose\u0219te ochiul \u0219i nu fur\u0103 prezen\u021ba p\u0103rintelui, ci o d\u0103ruie\u0219te. Acolo unde se deschide o carte, se \u00eenchide dependen\u021ba de ecrane \u0219i se aprinde o lumin\u0103 cald\u0103 \u00een sufletul copilului.<\/p>\n

Cei \u0219apte ani de acas\u0103 din trecut erau o \u0219coal\u0103 a sufletului: copilul \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba frica de Dumnezeu, respectul fa\u021b\u0103 de p\u0103rin\u021bi \u0219i b\u0103tr\u00e2ni, t\u0103cerea la vreme \u0219i cuv\u00e2ntul cu m\u0103sur\u0103. Casa era primul altar, iar p\u0103rin\u021bii \u2013 primii dasc\u0103li ai credin\u021bei. Ast\u0103zi, pentru mul\u021bi copii, ace\u0219ti ani se mut\u0103 din familie \u00een ecrane \u0219i influen\u021be str\u0103ine, unde valorile nu mai sunt transmise prin exemplu, ci prin imita\u021bie. F\u0103r\u0103 rug\u0103ciune, f\u0103r\u0103 timp d\u0103ruit, educa\u021bia devine informa\u021bie, nu formare. Biserica ne aminte\u0219te: \u201e\u00cenva\u021b\u0103 pe copil calea pe care trebuie s\u0103 mearg\u0103 \u0219i c\u00e2nd va \u00eemb\u0103tr\u00e2ni nu se va abate de la ea\u201d<\/em> (Pildele lui Solomon 22:6). Cei \u0219apte ani de acas\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n temelia vie\u021bii, dar numai dac\u0103 p\u0103rin\u021bii \u00eei zidesc cu iubire, credin\u021b\u0103 \u0219i prezen\u021b\u0103.<\/p>\n

Sf\u00e2nta Scriptur\u0103 ne aminte\u0219te limpede: \u201eL\u0103sa\u0163i copiii s\u0103 vin\u0103 la Mine \u015fi nu-i opri\u0163i\u201d<\/em> (Marcu 10:14). Dar cum s\u0103 vin\u0103 copiii, dac\u0103 aten\u021bia lor este mereu capturat\u0103? Cum s\u0103 aud\u0103 \u0219oapta lui Dumnezeu, dac\u0103 zgomotul digital nu se mai opre\u0219te? Rug\u0103ciunea cere lini\u0219te, iar copil\u0103ria are nevoie de t\u0103cere ca s\u0103 creasc\u0103 s\u0103n\u0103tos sufletul.<\/p>\n

Copilul crescut de ecrane \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 repede s\u0103 ating\u0103, s\u0103 deruleze, s\u0103 aleag\u0103, dar mai greu s\u0103 a\u0219tepte, s\u0103 rabde, s\u0103 asculte. R\u0103bdarea \u2013 virtute esen\u021bial\u0103 a vie\u021bii duhovnice\u0219ti \u2013 devine str\u0103in\u0103 unei genera\u021bii obi\u0219nuite cu r\u0103spunsuri instantanee. Joaca liber\u0103 de afar\u0103 este \u00eenlocuit\u0103 de jocuri programate, uneori violente, iar imagina\u021bia \u2013 de imagini gata f\u0103cute, iar dialogul este \u00eenlocuit de monologul rece al tehnologiei.<\/p>\n

Nu ecranul \u00een sine este r\u0103ul. R\u0103ul apare atunci c\u00e2nd ecranul ia locul p\u0103rintelui, al pove\u0219tii spuse seara, al rug\u0103ciunii rostite \u00eempreun\u0103, al plimb\u0103rii sub cer. Sf\u00e2ntul Ioan Gur\u0103 de Aur ne aminte\u0219te: \u201eNimic nu este mai puternic dec\u00e2t exemplul p\u0103rin\u021bilor\u201d. Dac\u0103 p\u0103rintele tr\u0103ie\u0219te cu ochii \u00een telefon, copilul va \u00eenv\u0103\u021ba aceea\u0219i privire cobor\u00e2t\u0103 spre ecranele vicioase.<\/p>\n

Copiii au nevoie s\u0103 vad\u0103 soarele, nu doar lumina ecranului. Au nevoie s\u0103 simt\u0103 v\u00e2ntul, s\u0103 ating\u0103 p\u0103m\u00e2ntul, s\u0103 cunoasc\u0103 ritmul firesc al crea\u021biei lui Dumnezeu. \u00cen natur\u0103, copilul \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 smerenia, uimirea, mul\u021bumirea. \u00cen fa\u021ba ecranului, risc\u0103 s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be doar consumul \u0219i ner\u0103bdarea, violen\u021ba \u0219i nest\u0103p\u00e2nirea, vulgaritatea \u0219i neascultarea\u2026<\/p>\n

\"Pl\u0103ie\u0219u<\/p>\n

Biserica nu cheam\u0103 la respingerea lumii, ci la discern\u0103m\u00e2nt. Tehnologia poate fi unealt\u0103, dar nu temelie. Educa\u021bia adev\u0103rat\u0103 \u00eencepe \u00een familie \u0219i se des\u0103v\u00e2r\u0219e\u0219te \u00een comunitate, acolo unde copilul vede credin\u021ba tr\u0103it\u0103, nu doar explicat\u0103. Rug\u0103ciunea spus\u0103 \u00eempreun\u0103, participarea la Sf\u00e2nta Liturghie, timpul d\u0103ruit \u2013 toate acestea sunt lumini calde, care hr\u0103nesc sufletul.<\/p>\n

Poate c\u0103 nu putem lua copiii definitiv din fa\u021ba ecranelor, dar \u00eei putem chema mai des la lumin\u0103. La lumina soarelui, la lumina chipului p\u0103rintelui, la lumina lui Hristos. Acolo unde privirea nu obose\u0219te, iar inima \u00eenva\u021b\u0103 s\u0103 bat\u0103 \u00een ritmul iubirii.<\/p>\n

Ecranul poate fi pentru copil o unealt\u0103 de lucru \u0219i de informare, dar nu un \u00eenlocuitor al vie\u021bii. Folosit cu m\u0103sur\u0103, el ajut\u0103 la \u00eenv\u0103\u021bare; folosit f\u0103r\u0103 discern\u0103m\u00e2nt, ajunge s\u0103 st\u0103p\u00e2neasc\u0103 voin\u021ba \u0219i s\u0103 sl\u0103beasc\u0103 aten\u021bia inimii. Copilul are nevoie mai \u00eent\u00e2i de prezen\u021b\u0103, dialog \u0219i rug\u0103ciune, nu de stimulare continu\u0103. Acolo unde lipse\u0219te m\u0103sura, unealta devine dependen\u021b\u0103, iar libertatea \u2013 robie. De aceea, p\u0103rin\u021bii sunt chema\u021bi s\u0103 \u00eenve\u021be copilul nu doar s\u0103 foloseasc\u0103 ecranul, ci s\u0103 \u0219tie \u0219i c\u00e2nd s\u0103 se opreasc\u0103.<\/p>\n

Copiii cu ochii lumina\u021bi de soare vor deveni adul\u021bi care \u0219tiu s\u0103 priveasc\u0103 cerul. Copiii crescu\u021bi doar de ecrane risc\u0103 s\u0103 r\u0103m\u00e2n\u0103 conecta\u021bi la lume, dar deconecta\u021bi de la ei \u00een\u0219i\u0219i. Alegerea ne apar\u021bine \u2013 \u0219i responsabilitatea la fel.<\/p>\n

Raisa Pl\u0103ie\u0219u,
\npentru Traditia.md<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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