{"id":2437,"date":"2022-03-02T11:01:07","date_gmt":"2022-03-02T08:01:07","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/horosho-li-govorit-o-drugih-vo-vremya-ispovedi\/"},"modified":"2022-03-06T11:03:26","modified_gmt":"2022-03-06T08:03:26","slug":"e-bine-sa-vorbesti-despre-altii-atunci-cand-te-spovedesti","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/e-bine-sa-vorbesti-despre-altii-atunci-cand-te-spovedesti\/","title":{"rendered":"E bine s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti despre al\u021bii atunci c\u00e2nd te spovede\u0219ti?"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><strong><em>Constantin \u00eentreab\u0103:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; P\u0103rinte, la spovedanie este bine s\u0103 dezv\u0103lui sl\u0103biciunile celor din familie \u0219i neputin\u021bele lor \u2013 pentru ca duhovnicul meu s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 mai bine problemele mele \u2013 sau se socotesc toate \u00eendrept\u0103\u021bire ori vorbire de r\u0103u?<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Preotul Constantin Sturzu a r\u0103spuns:<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n<p>&#8211; Este bine s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti doar despre p\u0103catele tale. Acum, sigur c\u0103 duhovnicul \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 lucrurile se petrec \u00eentr-un context. De aceea, \u00een general, duhovnicului nu-i spunem foarte multe detalii. \u00cei spunem doar despre ce ne mustr\u0103 pe noi con\u0219tiin\u021ba, ceea ce vedem noi ca ap\u0103sare. Dac\u0103 el va socoti c\u0103 este de folos s\u0103 \u00eentrebe \u0219i cum s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat, \u00een ce context, ce rol au jucat X sau Y, r\u0103m\u00e2ne s\u0103 decid\u0103 el.<\/p>\n<p>Aten\u021bie, este foarte sub\u021bire grani\u021ba dintre a \u00eencerca s\u0103 conturezi un context \u0219i a da vina pe al\u021bii. De fapt, este o viclenie a noastr\u0103 \u0219i trebuie s\u0103 ne-o asum\u0103m, s\u0103 ne-o recunoa\u0219tem ca atare. De exemplu, te spovede\u0219ti \u0219i spui c\u0103 ai fost m\u00e2nios. \u021ai-ai certat nevasta \u0219i copiii. \u0218i dup\u0103 aia \u00eencepi: \u201e\u0218ti\u021bi, c\u00e2nd am ajuns acas\u0103, nevasta nu f\u0103cuse m\u00e2ncare, st\u0103tuse la telenovel\u0103, copiii nu-\u0219i f\u0103cuser\u0103 temele. Sigur c\u0103 m-am enervat!\u201d. Deja tu crezi c\u0103 ai descris un context dar, \u00een realitate, \u021bi-ai g\u0103sit o \u00eendrept\u0103\u021bire.<\/p>\n<p>Ceea ce ai de v\u0103zut la tine este faptul c\u0103 te-ai m\u00e2niat. Acum\u2026 \u201em\u00e2nia\u021bi-v\u0103, dar nu gre\u0219i\u021bi!\u201d. Putea s\u0103 fie \u0219i o m\u00e2nie bun\u0103, pedagogic\u0103, a\u0219a cum \u0219i M\u00e2ntuitorul s-a m\u00e2niat \u0219i cu biciul i-a scos afar\u0103 din templu pe cei care f\u0103ceau comer\u021b acolo \u0219i au f\u0103cut din Casa Tat\u0103lui, \u201epe\u0219ter\u0103 de t\u00e2lhari\u201d. Dar asta nu \u00eenseamn\u0103 c\u0103 \u0219i-a pierdut cump\u0103tul. Nu \u0219i-a ie\u0219it din fire \u00een sensul \u00een care ne ie\u0219im noi. \u0218i noi ne putem m\u00e2nia, m\u00e2nia este o iu\u021bime, o putere l\u0103sat\u0103 nou\u0103 de Dumnezeu \u2013 ca s\u0103 ne desprindem de p\u0103cat \u0219i s\u0103 facem bine, s\u0103 fim hot\u0103r\u00e2\u021bi \u00een ceea ce facem \u0219i, poate, s\u0103 ne ajute \u0219i \u00een rela\u021bia cu aproapele. Am dat acest exemplu, pentru a \u00een\u021belege c\u0103 este mai bine s\u0103 \u00ee\u021bi asumi p\u0103catele.<\/p>\n<p>Dimpotriv\u0103, p\u0103rin\u021bii zic a\u0219a: c\u0103 atunci c\u00e2nd ai ajuns la o m\u0103sur\u0103 duhovniceasc\u0103 des\u0103v\u00e2r\u0219it\u0103, \u00eel acoperi \u0219i pe fratele t\u0103u. Nu numai c\u0103 nu prezin\u021bi p\u0103catul ca s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 duhovnicul sau \u00eendrum\u0103torul contextul ci, dimpotriv\u0103, \u021bi-l asumi cu totul ca fiind doar al t\u0103u.<\/p>\n<p>Eu am mul\u021bi ucenici care vin \u0219i la care eu \u00eencerc s\u0103 le mai \u00eentind c\u00e2te-o curs\u0103 \u0219i spun: \u201eDar ce s-a \u00eent\u00e2mplat? Dar erau situa\u021bii conflictuale?\u201d. Iar ei zic: \u201eNu, p\u0103rinte, orice-ar fi, ce-a zis so\u021bul sau ce-a zis so\u021bia, nu conteaz\u0103. Eu \u0219tiu c\u0103 eu am gre\u0219it. Nu m\u0103 intereseaz\u0103, el sau ea n-are nicio vin\u0103!\u201d. Deci \u00eei v\u0103d c\u0103-\u0219i asum\u0103 p\u00e2n\u0103 la cap\u0103t acest lucru \u0219i nici vorb\u0103 s\u0103 dea vina pe ceilal\u021bi!<\/p>\n<p><strong><em>Doxologia.ro<\/em><\/strong><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Constantin \u00eentreab\u0103: &#8211; P\u0103rinte, la spovedanie este bine s\u0103 dezv\u0103lui sl\u0103biciunile celor din familie \u0219i neputin\u021bele lor \u2013 pentru ca duhovnicul meu&hellip;<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":2434,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"_lmt_disableupdate":"","_lmt_disable":"","slim_seo":{"title":"E bine s\u0103 vorbe\u0219ti despre al\u021bii atunci c\u00e2nd te spovede\u0219ti? - traditia.md","description":"Constantin \u00eentreab\u0103: - P\u0103rinte, la spovedanie este bine s\u0103 dezv\u0103lui sl\u0103biciunile celor din familie \u0219i neputin\u021bele lor \u2013 pentru ca duhovnicul meu s\u0103 \u00een\u021beleag\u0103 ma"},"footnotes":""},"categories":[42],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-2437","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-intreaba-preotul"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2437","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=2437"}],"version-history":[{"count":0,"href":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/2437\/revisions"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media\/2434"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=2437"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=2437"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/traditia.md\/ro\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=2437"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}